http://www.videoflashchat.com/
Video Flash Chat is the right software to provide live web based Video and Audio (AV) presence to your website's users.
It can be used on a wide range of websites (chat for dating, live support, adult video chat, personal video sharing). The software supports 2 way realtime audio & video chat and fast private chat sessions – all 100% web based and monitored trough the webmaster area.
The look of the chat is completely customizable with the template based design. Interface graphics can be changed easily and even multiple templates can be used on the same website.